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Nik Pathran's avatar

Thank you, Derek, for sharing something so raw and incredibly human! That moment with your dad, when he quietly placed the blanket over you, says everything about the language of love and legacy.

Your openness about depression and healing is deeply inspiring. I explore similar themes through the lens of identity and how intentional shifts can open new paths forward.

Mindfulness, as you beautifully describe, creates the space where those shifts can finally take root.

Thank you again for this moving piece!

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Greg Conley's avatar

Hi, I'm not 100% sure, but pretty sure, if you're Dave Lakin's son, that was in a band. Can't remember if you played guitar or drums, but you guys practiced at your house off Decker drive. I met you several times working there for your Dad. he actually gave me that beautiful hot tub! I worked with him on many many remodeling jobs, doing mostly electrical work. I last saw him when he was living off I-10 and Chimney Rock? area. I never knew he actually died. We were good friends! I did work for Maralyn too at the Tomball house. Anyway If this makes no sense LOL, forget it, sorry I have the wrong people, just memories

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