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Aly's avatar

This was so moving and thoughtfully written. Your journey through grief, healing, and mindfulness came through in every word. Thank you for sharing it with such honesty and depth.

You belong here.

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Derek Lakin's avatar

Thank you so much for taking the time to reach out, and for your kind words! May we all have the courage to remember ourselves. 🙏

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Paul Louis's avatar

Thank you very much for this vulnerable share Derek!

Are you saying Ketamine therapy had such a big impact on you? It was the deciding factor for you not committing suicide?

That is very interesting. I haven't heard that before, that it holds that power.

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Derek Lakin's avatar

Thanks, Paul! Yes, ketamine and mindfulness were the keys that unlocked Derek 2.0.

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Greg Conley's avatar

Hi, I'm not 100% sure, but pretty sure, if you're Dave Lakin's son, that was in a band. Can't remember if you played guitar or drums, but you guys practiced at your house off Decker drive. I met you several times working there for your Dad. he actually gave me that beautiful hot tub! I worked with him on many many remodeling jobs, doing mostly electrical work. I last saw him when he was living off I-10 and Chimney Rock? area. I never knew he actually died. We were good friends! I did work for Maralyn too at the Tomball house. Anyway If this makes no sense LOL, forget it, sorry I have the wrong people, just memories

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Derek Lakin's avatar

Hi, Greg, thanks so much for reaching out. Yes, that’s me! I’ve reconnected with several long-lost acquaintances here on Substack, and it’s a beautiful thing. How are you?

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Greg Conley's avatar

Holy Cow! Wow awesome. Yeah I have great long term memory, poor short term. I'm doing great! I worked with your dad on many projects, he liked me and treated me very good. I knew he was in bad health but he never discussed it. Still I have lots of fond memories working with him, and he is missed. Looks like you've done very well for yourself congrats. And hoping your mother is doing good, I always liked her. I think it was a Halloween night I last saw her in Tomball, fixing something! Take care Greg

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